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The Dark Feminine: How the Patriarchy Shamed Our Power

If you’re afraid to speak up, show your body, or chase your dreams, it’s on purpose. But your power was never yours to fear; it was theirs.

Fear is a given, silence is a choice

Speaking out against injustice will always be scary, but it will always be the right thing to do. Can we, as women, turn that fear into fuel?

I Know You’re Frustrated

If you feel like you aren’t growing fast enough, or that you keep backsliding in your transformation after religion, this message is for you.

Embrace THe Power of Self-Compassion

If you struggle with self-compassion, it could be that you still view yourself as the sinner your religion taught you to be and that compassion can only come from God. You know better now. It’s time to let that shit go.

Why Embrace Being Alone

It’s not easy to embrace you own company after being part of a close-knit religious community. But the truth is- you are all you need.

You Are Not Your Thoughts

If your brain feels like the enemy, it’s time to remember that you are not your thoughts.

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Reclaim the Feminine: A Call to Fellow Tomboys

Reclaim the Feminine: A Call to Fellow Tomboys

I’m a tomboy. I used to announce this as though it were something to be proud of. And usually, I was. I didn’t like dresses, or babies, or cooking, or makeup, or shopping, or any of the “girly” activities I was presented with as a child. My mother was also a...

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Build Self-Worth After Leaving Religion

Build Self-Worth After Leaving Religion

I have been out of Mormonism for a few years. Long enough that I can laugh at who I was as a member, not so long that I have recovered from the brainwashing. I wish I could tell you that once you leave a cult, the brainwashing goes too. I wish I could say it's...

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You Are Enough Without Religion

You Are Enough Without Religion

If you clicked on this page, odds are you, like most of us, struggle with feeling like you’re not enough. It sounds easy to tell yourself, “I’m enough!” However, believing it is a whole other ball of wax. I won’t lie, I’m working on this daily, hourly even. So first,...

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