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Find inspiration, validation, motivation, and maybe even a little humor as you rise from the lies and reclaim your true self.

Why Embrace Being Alone

It’s not easy to embrace you own company after being part of a close-knit religious community. But the truth is- you are all you need.

You Are Not Your Thoughts

If your brain feels like the enemy, it’s time to remember that you are not your thoughts.

Developing Resilience After Religion

What does it take to be considered “resilient”? Is it being able to keep a cool head when things don’t go according to plan? Is it laughing off challenges? Is it simply bouncing back when life knocks you down? I’m learning it’s all of those things. It’s being able to...

Letting Go of Control

If you struggle with letting go of control after religion, you are not alone. If going with the flow feels impossible, this one is for you!

You Are Only Responsible For Yourself

If religion and society told you that you were responsible for the actions and feelings of others, you need to read this.

Setting Healthy Boundaries After Religion

Women in religion are trained to put themselves last, having very unhealthy boundaries So once we leave, setting them and holding to them is very difficult. Difficult, but not impossible.

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The Healing Power of Tears: Being Sad After Leaving Religion

Jan 3, 2023 | Circle Messages

Are you sad after leaving religion? Naturally! You’ve lost community and your understanding of the world. Give yourself a moment to grieve.

You Deserve Joy After Religion

Dec 20, 2022 | Circle Messages

Why is it so hard to reclaim joy after religion? There are many possible reasons, but all of them are garbage. Here’s why.

Be Patient With Yourself After Religion

Dec 13, 2022 | Circle Messages

While we hope for instant transformation, we must remember to be patient after religion and remember that growth happens slowly.

Live Fearlessly After Religion

Dec 5, 2022 | Circle Messages, Sovereignty

To choose ourselves is to choose “wrong” according to religion. As women who’ve left religion, to choose ourselves requires we be fearless.

You Are Not Alone After Religion

Nov 28, 2022 | Circle Messages

Leaving the close community of religion can feel like leaving the safety of a warm nest. If part of leaving your religion meant leaving friends, and even family behind, it can feel like you’ve plunged into the deepest, darkest cave. Your voice echoes around you, the...

Releasing the Good Girl

Nov 15, 2022 | Circle Messages, Sovereignty

Do you feel yourself still playing the part of ‘the good girl’ that religion forced you to be? Let’s talk about how to release yourself from the mold and embrace your authentic self, and why you ought to.

Self-Trust After Religion

Nov 7, 2022 | Circle Messages, Sovereignty

Women have been discouraged from trusting themselves since man could plant the seeds of doubt. It may seem impossible, but in reality, you’re already doing it.

UterusBoss: The phony “empowerment” of women

Oct 14, 2022 | Empowerment

Belittling titles such as LadyBoss or She-EO, which emphasize our gender first and foremost as the latest form of placating women’s rage with hollow empowerment has got to stop.

Reclaim the Feminine: A Call to Fellow Tomboys

Oct 5, 2022 | Self-Worth

I’m a tomboy. I used to announce this as though it were something to be proud of. And usually, I was. I didn’t like dresses, or babies, or cooking, or makeup, or shopping, or any of the “girly” activities I was presented with as a child. My mother was also a...

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