I Know You’re Frustrated

I Know You’re Frustrated

How long have you been out of your religion? Are you frustrated that you aren’t 100% recovered? Are you sad that you feel like you’re still struggling with the issues of faith deconstruction? Are you still living from self-limiting beliefs and religious programming?...
Embrace THe Power of Self-Compassion

Embrace THe Power of Self-Compassion

In the world of religion the only one who could show you love and compassion was an imaginary figure in the sky. He may have been called father, brother, savior, etc. It was only this person who could show compassion, and through him only that we were able to show...
Why Embrace Being Alone

Why Embrace Being Alone

Being alone has always been portrayed in society as something to avoid. If we were ever alone at school, we worried about being branded “loners.” If we didn’t have lots of friends, we were seen as lame. If we didn’t participate in lots of activities and clubs, we were...
You Are Only Responsible For Yourself

You Are Only Responsible For Yourself

Any woman who grew up with siblings has known what it feels like to be a mother-figure. Even if our siblings were older, if we were the only female, we were the little mother of the house. As young women, we became our mother’s helper. Taking care of the house, of the...
Setting Healthy Boundaries After Religion

Setting Healthy Boundaries After Religion

Religion teaches women that being accommodating, agreeable, and easy to work with are respectable traits. What they forget to tell you, is how these are traits encouraged in mainly women because they want women to be the people-pleasing good girls their religious...