Build Self-Worth After Leaving Religion

Build Self-Worth After Leaving Religion

I have been out of Mormonism for a few years. Long enough that I can laugh at who I was as a member, not so long that I have recovered from the brainwashing. I wish I could tell you that once you leave a cult, the brainwashing goes too. I wish I could say it’s...
You Are Enough Without Religion

You Are Enough Without Religion

If you clicked on this page, odds are you, like most of us, struggle with feeling like you’re not enough. It sounds easy to tell yourself, “I’m enough!” However, believing it is a whole other ball of wax. I won’t lie, I’m working on this daily, hourly even. So first,...
Choose the Right to Choose Wrong

Choose the Right to Choose Wrong

“You’re doing it wrong.”- “You shouldn’t do that.” -“That’s not the right way.” How have you been told to choose the right? Whether from our parents, teachers, supervisors, even friends, we’ve all heard this type of comment. Their intentions are good. They see...
3 Things Ex-Christian Women Need

3 Things Ex-Christian Women Need

Your mother isn’t speaking to you. Your father can’t look at you. Perhaps your siblings have nixed you from their life for being a bad influence on their children. Leaving religion takes quite a toll on people. If you’re a woman who’s left religion, then you know the...
Trying to Drop the Yoke of Perfectionism

Trying to Drop the Yoke of Perfectionism

This post is exceptionally passionate and, therefore, curse words abound. You’ve been warned, you adorable human, you!* Some got straight A’s. Some never swore or revealed their shoulders. Some never dated. Some joined extra-curricular activities and clubs. A few may...