I didn’t grow up dreaming of officiating, weddings or otherwise.
I grew up in a church that told me I wasn’t allowed to.
As a woman, I wasn’t permitted to lead, speak, or bless anything.

So now I do all three — with my whole heart.

Why? Because every threshold we cross — from falling in love to letting go — deserves to be witnessed, held, and honored. Weddings, celebrations of life, rites of passage… these moments are sacred because they’re real, emotional, and honest — not because someone in a robe said so.

I’m here to help people mark these thresholds with fire, presence, and truth. Whether you’re celebrating a union, a transition, or your own sovereign becoming, I’ll help you craft a ceremony that reflects your truth, not someone else’s tradition

That’s what I bring.

As a public speaker, ceremonialist, and ordained minister through AMM, based in Hawai‘i, I curate non-religious ceremonies for people who know that sacred doesn’t require dogma. I’m not here to preach. I’m here to hold space.

For weddings, from cliffside elopements to big jungle ceremonies, I’m here for couples who don’t fit the mold, who never felt seen by traditional ceremonies, and who want their union to be sacred without being suffocating.

For other rites & celebrations, whether you’re walking away from a religion that made you feel “less than,” honoring the transitions of life, or something else entirely, I aim to honor your past and your future. Every chapter should be celebrated and honored.

I would be delighted to make whatever transition you’re experiencing sacred, memorable, and completely you.

Because you’re worthy of celebration. 

Simple Ceremonies

Short. Sweet. Sacred

A short but meaningful ceremony for couples who want to elope or keep it small and intimate. This offering is best for those who don’t need customization or fluff — just a warm, heartfelt officiation that feels personal but not performative.

Includes:

• A brief consult to gather your names & tone (via phone or video call)
• 15–20 minute ceremony (simple language, no customization)
• Officiation of ceremony
• Filing of marriage license (for Hawai‘i weddings)
• Travel within The Big Island
• Optional Add-Ons: Travel beyond island or additional ceremonies (ring blessings, vow renewals, handfastings, etc.)

Perfect for:

Elopements • Private vow moments • Last-minute love stories

Investment:

Starts at $200 (goes up with add-ons)

I’m for couples who:

• Want a non-religious ceremony that still feels soulful and sacred
• Are feminist, queer, non-traditional, spiritual-but-not-religious, or joyfully irreverent
• Want something personal, real, and rooted in their values
• Don’t want to be “given away” like a goat
• Know that ceremony can be powerful without being performative

Celebrations of Life

Honor Their Memory, Celebrate Their Life

While death naturally brings grief, it can also be a time to reflect on the value of life and curiosity for what comes next. Allow me to create a celebration of life worthy of the person who meant so much to you. Customizable and dogma-free, these ceremonies will honor the life of the departed and the memories created.

Divorce Ceremonies

Honor The Journey, Celebrate The Next Phase

In this space, we don’t enforce “till death do us part” nonsense. Sometimes, it’s better for a couple to end their marriage. Instead of treating this event with somber regret, it ought to be treated with optimistic pride. A new phase of your life is around the corner. We honor the past and look to the future. Suitable for one person or the couple, depending on feelings.