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Find inspiration, validation, motivation, and maybe even a little humor as you rise from the lies and reclaim your true self.

Why Embrace Being Alone

It’s not easy to embrace you own company after being part of a close-knit religious community. But the truth is- you are all you need.

You Are Not Your Thoughts

If your brain feels like the enemy, it’s time to remember that you are not your thoughts.

Developing Resilience After Religion

What does it take to be considered “resilient”? Is it being able to keep a cool head when things don’t go according to plan? Is it laughing off challenges? Is it simply bouncing back when life knocks you down? I’m learning it’s all of those things. It’s being able to...

Letting Go of Control

If you struggle with letting go of control after religion, you are not alone. If going with the flow feels impossible, this one is for you!

You Are Only Responsible For Yourself

If religion and society told you that you were responsible for the actions and feelings of others, you need to read this.

Setting Healthy Boundaries After Religion

Women in religion are trained to put themselves last, having very unhealthy boundaries So once we leave, setting them and holding to them is very difficult. Difficult, but not impossible.

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Orgasm is Not a Dirty Word

Orgasm is Not a Dirty Word

It was my first romance book from the library that ignited me for the first time. I must have been fifteen or so. I didn’t know what the strange but addictive gnawing in my belly was. I read the story, the dirty, detailed descriptions. I raced through dinner so I...

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Nature is My New Temple

Nature is My New Temple

I didn’t grow up appreciating nature. It wasn’t really a Mormon thing. We worshiped in buildings, got married in bigger buildings, and only occasionally did we embrace the outdoors. When we did manage to go out to the forest, it was never to simply be, but instead to...

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10 Reasons To Walk Away From Your Religion

10 Reasons To Walk Away From Your Religion

1. You feel judged or judgmental of others When you have a strict set of Dos and Don’ts, it becomes exceptionally easy to look around and see who is breaking the rules. We did this as children. We ratted out our siblings or classmates when they broke the rules. This...

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